Most importantly it seems that there is a need for creating standards of practice and getting job descriptions from staff. It seems that they have been subsisting without leadership or communication. I would ask staff to provide what each of them do to me so that I could have a universal perspective of the inner workings of the church. I would ask them to get that, if they are able, before the board meeting.
I would ask for more information about the van; how is it used, does the church own it outright, what specific repairs need to be made to keep it on the road. I would ask for a copy of the budget and more information of the details of the endowment. Were these funds restricted? I would schedule meetings with both Mary and Jose at their earliest convenience. My response to Jose would be to assure him that we will figure this out together in an effort to illicit a feeling of trust and team building.
I would let Marjorie know that I would love to speak more about her idea for a preschool after I have an opportunity to get a lay of the land. In the meantime I would ask her to draw up a proposal for said preschool with some initial due diligence.
I would tell Ralph that I hear his concern. I would then inform him that there is a board meeting in a couple of days where I hope to have a full picture of the church finances. I would tell him that after the meeting I would have a better idea how to proceed and that I would need some time to formulate a plan with the board. I would ask that he give me at least 2 weeks to do that work before scheduling a meeting with him.