Yes Mike. The necessity sometimes for getting to the back of the boat in the navigation of life. Sinking the boat is like failing in our leadership, and not trying to save children and women first! can help us either. We are the captain, we are in charge, including our necessary personal replenishment. Those boundaries that you mentioned mark the balance that we need, for the good of everyone. I appreciate for sharing and reminding this lesson of the book of Kirk B. Jones.