"Whenever the waters of change are stirred, the perception grows that the dominant focus on management, predictability, and control is leading us in the wrong direction." (Missional Maps, Roxburgh p.108)
This quote helped me realize that I am not the villain when I institute change. People, including myself are resistant to change and do not want to leave their comfort zones. So before giving change a chance they struggle to hold on to what they know. This quote helps me embrace the opposition I will face as well as as the change that I must make when presented with such a challenge.
"The more your position becomes defined as who you are, the more difficult it is for you to know truth and freedom. The role identification itself can keep you away from your own true higher self, since the role of occupation is the dominant force in your life," Dr. Wayne W. Dyer. (Rest In The Storm, Jones p. 20)
Through this quote I learned that I was competing against myself. As a leader you cannot overvalue yourself in that position related to you will lose your identity as a person. My position or title is not who I am, it is why I do. If I want to people to respect me and not fear me than I must allow the real me to be the person they see and not my title or position.